Dear Friends (I hope you are still my friends),
Like I said this is hard to put in words how I am feeling and my thoughts of what happened Sunday night into Monday. But I prayed about it and felt that I needed to type my thoughts. I know you have my son in your thoughts and his well being. I really do appreciate it. I need to back all the way up to Saturday night. Miles was up all night long crying and having a really hard time sleeping. We then went to church Sunday and knew he just wasn't having a good day.
He didn't want to go to class and his nursery teacher pretty much sat with him in the hall all of Sunday. We then went home and relaxed before we had to leave again to head to my in-laws. At my in-laws there is a total of six kids under five years old. Then we have nine adults in the house. Miles was running like mad attacking his Uncles and playing with toys.
We had dinner where Miles couldn't sit still he had to keep moving as he was shoving his lunch-able in his mouth at lighting speed. I knew that Miles was having sensory issues because he couldn't sit still he had to stay moving. I had a feeling we were going to have a huge big blowup before bed.
After dinner I was sitting on the floor while us adults were talking and finishing dinner. Miles started to run around and he came over and and jump over my leg like he sometimes does even at home. A few minutes later he came back and jump over my legs but didn't quite make it. He fell to the ground and was screaming. I pulled him into my lap and comfort him and looked him over and saw nothing that was concerning. He then stood up and started to cry again so I knew he hurt his foot more then I thought and had him sit with me. He wanted to go with his cousins, Aunts, Uncles, siblings, Grandparents on a walk. Anytime he stood up he started to cry and he didn't want to stay.
So I picked him up and carried him to a stroller and pushed him to the park. At the park he got out of the stroller and ran around the park. He went down the slides and swung on the swing with no problem. He showed no distress in having any pain. I put him back in the stroller and we headed back to my in-laws house.
When we arrived I carried Miles inside the house where Miles decided he rather be at the park. He took off towards the front door to leave. I pulled him into the house and he started to have a massive meltdown. He started to punch, kick me with both feet, wrap his arms around my neck from behind me to choke me, he started to pull my hair. All the while my husband tried to get the others into pjs and in the car. Miles screamed and was hurting me while he was on his feet or using his feet to kick me.
We finally got into the car and went home. Once home I carried Miles into the house and set him down where he complained his foot hurt but wasn't limping. Then if we were watching him he started to limp. We gave him some pain medicine and went through the process to get him to bed after he calmed down out of his meltdown.
Stephen and myself discussed if we needed to take him to ER to get his foot checked. We both agreed that taking him that night would be more sensory overload on Miles then need be. His foot would be fine until morning when we could take him to the walk-in. He was going to be fine on pain meds and get the sleep he so desperately needed. If we took him to the ER he would be struggling all through the x-rays where we would have to restrain him. Who knows how long it would take in the ER to get him through it all. He was doing okay walking on it for the most part but we would carry him if it seemed to be bothering him.
He tossed and turn during the night but he got some great sleep. Monday morning, we awoke and he started to limp and cry that his foot hurt. So, we agreed after his dentist appointment we would take him to walk-in. I carried Miles in my arms through the dentist appointment and he was doing great. He was his normal happy self and was playing and watching tv. Even had some icecream at the dentist. I then took him to walk-in and found out there was an hour wait which wasn't a big deal. When we got into the back room Miles did awesome and let the doctor feel and look at his foot. He also listened to the direction of the x-ray tech and held still for each x-ray they took. I didn't have to hold him or restrain him he did it all on his own.
Miles is only been on pain meds for bed at night but other then that you can barely tell his foot is broken. He is jumping, running, spinning self and play fighting. He wears a walking boot to help him walk normal so it can heal normal. The doctors told me it didn't matter when I brought him in to get it looked at.
You see, Friends. You only heard a little bit of what was going on. I made sure he wasn't harming it and was not in pain. We carried him everywhere until he was looked at. Stephen and I do have the best interest of Miles in us. When Miles is having a sensory overload any touch sets him off and since he was having one it was best to wait as lots of people would be touching him that he didn't know. When Miles is having a sensory overload a single touch is like an electric shock to his system. It literally hurts him no matter how gentle it is.
I really hope it doesn't ruin our friendship because it's such a small little argument. I do like having your friendship and I hope you enjoy having mine.